Nov 19, 2020
Rob and Tami get some really insightful questions this week. They answer everything from if it makes sense to get a pet to help with trauma and recovery, when enough is enough and it’s time to walk away, and how to be healthy adults and think about the future of your children and grandchildren.
TAKEAWAYS:
[0:30] Can an affair lead onto a more serious sex addiction?
[1:45] Is he an addict or just a jerk?
[4:25] I think my best friend is a sex addict. What do I do?
[6:30] My husband still talks to his best friend after lying that he doesn’t. Should I talk to his friend about this?
[7:35] My husband has an unwillingness to commit to recovery and I don’t know how to talk to him about it.
[9:15] My husband is an addict, how will it take for him to stop being a narcissist?
[12:25] I’m in a 12 step program, how do I have healthy sex that goes beyond abstinence?
[14:30] Would getting a pet help my wife heal?
[18:55] My husband relapsed after 8 years and blames me for putting him into recovery. What’s going on?
[24:55] My husband stopped seeing a therapist and now has relapsed. I feel so emotionally done. How do I trust him again?
RESOURCES:
Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com
Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Book by Robert Weiss
Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction by Robert Weiss