Nov 12, 2020
Rob and Tami dive right into how a betrayed spouse can work with their addict during times of close quarters and covid, how should a CSAT therapist interact with a betrayed spouse and addict, and whether or not a betrayed spouse should meet with her husband’s past affair partners.
TAKEAWAYS:
[0:30] Is there a way to co-exist without feeling triggered?
[3:00] Would talking to a lawyer about our marriage be helpful or hurtful?
[5:10] I feel like my partner is blaming me, when I call him out on this, he says I’m not listening. What should I do?
[7:30] I want to meet some of my husband’s affair partners. Would this make this worse or better?
[11:25] My husband speaks about the prostitute as if she was his wife. What should I do?
[14:35] When should my addict and I go into couple’s counseling?
[16:00] I developed an unhealthy bond with my mother. How do I regain control as an adult?
[19:45] What are Dr. Rob’s thoughts when an addict makes excuses and does not take his therapy seriously?
[23:05] How do I create a dating plan?
[27:05] Should my CSAT therapist talk to my addict about my codependency?
RESOURCES:
Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com
Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Book by Robert Weiss
Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction by Robert Weiss